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The Parent Speech for Parashat Vayera

If your child is reading Vayera, the speech you give that morning shouldn't be a book report on the portion — it should be about them, with the parsha giving your words weight. Vayera hands a parent three honest ways in: hospitality and welcoming, arguing for what's fair, showing up for hard tests.

What happens in Parashat Vayera

Abraham welcomes three strangers, argues with God over Sodom, and faces his hardest test.

1. Hospitality and welcoming

Abraham runs to greet three strangers and feeds them lavishly — opening the tent is the parsha's first act.

The story to findHow does your child make new people feel welcome — at school, at your table, on a team?

2. Arguing for what's fair

Abraham challenges God directly over Sodom: 'Shall the Judge of all the earth not do justice?' Arguing for others is holy work.

The story to findWhen has your child pushed back — respectfully but firmly — because something wasn't fair?

3. Showing up for hard tests

Abraham answers 'Hineni' — here I am — when the hardest moment calls.

The story to findTell about a moment your child showed up fully for something difficult instead of avoiding it.

How a real parent speech comes together

The speeches that make a room go quiet aren't essays about the parsha — they're two or three true stories about your kid, with one Torah moment placed where it lands hardest. Pick the single theme above that made you think of a specific dinner-table moment, answer its question honestly, and resist the urge to attach a moral to every story. End with a blessing in your own words — that's the part everyone remembers.

Nachas writes it with you.

A ten-minute interview about your child, and you get a speech plan that pairs their real stories with Vayera — then three complete drafts in different voices, for every speaker in the family.

Start with Vayera — see your speech plan

The interview and speech plan are free. No signup.