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The Parent Speech for Parashat Va'era

If your child is reading Va'era, the speech you give that morning shouldn't be a book report on the portion — it should be about them, with the parsha giving your words weight. Va'era hands a parent three honest ways in: persistence through refusal, finding your voice, feeling others' burdens.

What happens in Parashat Va'era

Moses returns to Pharaoh again and again; the plagues begin; liberation is promised in four expressions.

1. Persistence through refusal

Pharaoh says no over and over — and Moses keeps coming back. The work of change is repetition.

The story to findWhat has your child kept asking for, practicing, or pushing on long after most people would have quit?

2. Finding your voice

Moses calls himself 'heavy of tongue,' yet becomes the speaker for a nation — the message matters more than smooth delivery.

The story to findHow has your child found their voice — in writing, on a bimah, in a classroom — even if speaking up doesn't come naturally?

3. Feeling others' burdens

God hears the groaning of the enslaved and remembers — empathy precedes redemption.

The story to findWhen has your child truly felt someone else's struggle and let it move them to act?

How a real parent speech comes together

The speeches that make a room go quiet aren't essays about the parsha — they're two or three true stories about your kid, with one Torah moment placed where it lands hardest. Pick the single theme above that made you think of a specific dinner-table moment, answer its question honestly, and resist the urge to attach a moral to every story. End with a blessing in your own words — that's the part everyone remembers.

Nachas writes it with you.

A ten-minute interview about your child, and you get a speech plan that pairs their real stories with Va'era — then three complete drafts in different voices, for every speaker in the family.

Start with Va'era — see your speech plan

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