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Bar & Bat Mitzvah · Parent Speech Guide · Deuteronomy

The Parent Speech for Parashat Re'eh

If your child is reading Re'eh, the speech you give that morning shouldn't be a book report on the portion — it should be about them, with the parsha giving your words weight. Re'eh hands a parent three honest ways in: seeing your choices clearly, the open hand, joy as a practice.

What happens in Parashat Re'eh

'See, I set before you blessing and curse' — choices laid out plainly, and the command of the open hand.

1. Seeing your choices clearly

Re'eh — see — the parsha opens by making choice visible: blessing and curse are set before you; choosing is on you.

The story to findWhen has your child seen a choice clearly and chosen the harder, better path?

2. The open hand

'You shall surely open your hand to your brother' — patoach tiftach — generosity here is a command, doubled for emphasis.

The story to findHow does your child open their hand — sharing, giving tzedakah, being generous by reflex?

3. Joy as a practice

This parsha commands rejoicing at the festivals — including the stranger, orphan, and widow in your celebration. Joy is something you do and share.

The story to findHow does your child create joy for others — the one who makes the party, includes everyone, gets the room laughing?

How a real parent speech comes together

The speeches that make a room go quiet aren't essays about the parsha — they're two or three true stories about your kid, with one Torah moment placed where it lands hardest. Pick the single theme above that made you think of a specific dinner-table moment, answer its question honestly, and resist the urge to attach a moral to every story. End with a blessing in your own words — that's the part everyone remembers.

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A ten-minute interview about your child, and you get a speech plan that pairs their real stories with Re'eh — then three complete drafts in different voices, for every speaker in the family.

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